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		<title>By: Ren</title>
		<link>http://www.mindonfire.com/2010/02/04/choice-choice/comment-page-1/#comment-25597</link>
		<dc:creator>Ren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:53:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Here, here, xjane.   You articulated what I have thought about but couldn&#039;t find the appropriate words to explain.  It&#039;s not so much the opposition to the commercial but the inferences made by it.

John,  your comment, &quot;I actually don’t think they value the unborn so much as they want to control women’s bodies. &quot; is very much on the money.   Women and babies seem to have more value as a martyrs who risk death in childbirth.  

Given the opposition to sex ed, it feels very much like an effort to control women.  Education = empowerment.

Where are the protests of men who impregnate women? 

Why are humans so hell bent on women&#039;s &quot;purity&quot; and not men&#039;s?  This has gone on for many millenia and has infiltrated our cultures, shaped religions, and I don&#039;t understand it.  Because of the prevalence of misogyny for well, forever it seems, I have to believe there&#039;s something psychological at work. But it doesn&#039;t help me excuse or understand it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Here, here, xjane.   You articulated what I have thought about but couldn&#8217;t find the appropriate words to explain.  It&#8217;s not so much the opposition to the commercial but the inferences made by it.</p>
<p>John,  your comment, &#8220;I actually don’t think they value the unborn so much as they want to control women’s bodies. &#8221; is very much on the money.   Women and babies seem to have more value as a martyrs who risk death in childbirth.  </p>
<p>Given the opposition to sex ed, it feels very much like an effort to control women.  Education = empowerment.</p>
<p>Where are the protests of men who impregnate women? </p>
<p>Why are humans so hell bent on women&#8217;s &#8220;purity&#8221; and not men&#8217;s?  This has gone on for many millenia and has infiltrated our cultures, shaped religions, and I don&#8217;t understand it.  Because of the prevalence of misogyny for well, forever it seems, I have to believe there&#8217;s something psychological at work. But it doesn&#8217;t help me excuse or understand it.</p>
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		<title>By: xJane</title>
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		<dc:creator>xJane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 03:40:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hah, yeah after &lt;i&gt;all that build up&lt;/i&gt; it was pretty anticlimactic, although it got my sisters bickering about which antichoice group was most bestest. And yeah, all the others were pretty horrible, too.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hah, yeah after <i>all that build up</i> it was pretty anticlimactic, although it got my sisters bickering about which antichoice group was most bestest. And yeah, all the others were pretty horrible, too.</p>
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		<title>By: adamf</title>
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		<dc:creator>adamf</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:19:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yeah, the commercial would have been that much better without the linkage.

Fwiw, all those men are wimps or pigs commercials were the most bothersome to me. Why is there no controversy there?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yeah, the commercial would have been that much better without the linkage.</p>
<p>Fwiw, all those men are wimps or pigs commercials were the most bothersome to me. Why is there no controversy there?</p>
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		<title>By: G</title>
		<link>http://www.mindonfire.com/2010/02/04/choice-choice/comment-page-1/#comment-25594</link>
		<dc:creator>G</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 18:01:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>adamF~lol, yah, it was anti-climatic huh?
but then...  there&#039;s always LINKAGE to provide more and additional provocation: http://ow.ly/156uU

oh...  and here&#039;s a pretty good rundown of all the sexism, racism, and homophobia in yesterday&#039;s super bowl commercials: http://bit.ly/asgQkd</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>adamF~lol, yah, it was anti-climatic huh?<br />
but then&#8230;  there&#8217;s always LINKAGE to provide more and additional provocation: <a href="http://ow.ly/156uU" rel="nofollow">http://ow.ly/156uU</a></p>
<p>oh&#8230;  and here&#8217;s a pretty good rundown of all the sexism, racism, and homophobia in yesterday&#8217;s super bowl commercials: <a href="http://bit.ly/asgQkd" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/asgQkd</a></p>
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		<title>By: AdamF</title>
		<link>http://www.mindonfire.com/2010/02/04/choice-choice/comment-page-1/#comment-25593</link>
		<dc:creator>AdamF</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Feb 2010 17:34:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Well, I was a bit disappointed about the lack of controversy from the ad. Now what do we talk about? Perhaps we can argue that Tebow tackling his mother was symbolic for anti-choice or violence against women?  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well, I was a bit disappointed about the lack of controversy from the ad. Now what do we talk about? Perhaps we can argue that Tebow tackling his mother was symbolic for anti-choice or violence against women?  <img src='http://www.mindonfire.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: kmillecam</title>
		<link>http://www.mindonfire.com/2010/02/04/choice-choice/comment-page-1/#comment-25588</link>
		<dc:creator>kmillecam</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 17:02:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for putting your thoughts into words here.  I have also been following feministing and other blogs about this commercial and feel so frustrated that women are so soundly denied their decisions and choices when it comes to such an important and life-changing decision.   I am especially dismayed to find CBS giving special attention to Focus on the Family.  Ridiculous.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for putting your thoughts into words here.  I have also been following feministing and other blogs about this commercial and feel so frustrated that women are so soundly denied their decisions and choices when it comes to such an important and life-changing decision.   I am especially dismayed to find CBS giving special attention to Focus on the Family.  Ridiculous.</p>
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		<title>By: Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 15:10:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Silly John, those people aren&#039;t &lt;i&gt;Americans&lt;/i&gt;! Clearly they deserve their lot in life, and Jesus is surely using the righteous US military to punish them for their heathen sins.

I mean, &lt;i&gt;everybody knows&lt;/i&gt; that Americans lives are better and more important than Iraqi or Afghani lives.   American are exceptional!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Silly John, those people aren&#8217;t <i>Americans</i>! Clearly they deserve their lot in life, and Jesus is surely using the righteous US military to punish them for their heathen sins.</p>
<p>I mean, <i>everybody knows</i> that Americans lives are better and more important than Iraqi or Afghani lives.   American are exceptional!</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 07:47:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Craig, excellent points. 

One more inconsistency just crossed my mind: the people I know who are the most willing to extend legal protections to fetuses are also the most ardent supporters of US military excursions abroad. I might believe they were &quot;pro-life&quot; if they valued, say, an Iraqi life half as much as they did a blastocyst.

Grrrrrr...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Craig, excellent points. </p>
<p>One more inconsistency just crossed my mind: the people I know who are the most willing to extend legal protections to fetuses are also the most ardent supporters of US military excursions abroad. I might believe they were &#8220;pro-life&#8221; if they valued, say, an Iraqi life half as much as they did a blastocyst.</p>
<p>Grrrrrr&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 07:03:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find that happens with a lot of conservative issues. On the surface they might make sense, but once you gather evidence they fall apart - but I guess that&#039;s why I&#039;m such a raving liberal.

I understand the desire to preserve life, I really, really do, and I think a lot of those who oppose abortion do so out of that reason, and I think that many haven&#039;t dissected the issue as it needs to be, and haven&#039;t really thought about it more than the sensationalised &quot;KILLING BABIES OMG!&quot;  

Even if I allow that a foetus is as important as a human who has already been born (and I don&#039;t believe that), the protestation that those who oppose abortion are &quot;pro-life&quot; falls flat on its face as soon as one investigates the other views that tend to go along with that.  Our system for dealing with unwanted and undernurtured children is broken as it is, if abortions were to stop, the number of children who would need to be adopted, who would need serious medical attention, who would be put in the foster-care system, etc. would increase dramatically, and rarely are those who oppose the legality of abortion those who also support increasing social programme funding, or increasing the pool of possible adoptive and foster parents (singles, gays).

What is especially sad to me is that a woman is no less misogynist for opposing the right to abortion just because she&#039;s a woman.  It is tragic when you can convince those who are discriminated against  to perpetuate and defend their own discrimination.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find that happens with a lot of conservative issues. On the surface they might make sense, but once you gather evidence they fall apart &#8211; but I guess that&#8217;s why I&#8217;m such a raving liberal.</p>
<p>I understand the desire to preserve life, I really, really do, and I think a lot of those who oppose abortion do so out of that reason, and I think that many haven&#8217;t dissected the issue as it needs to be, and haven&#8217;t really thought about it more than the sensationalised &#8220;KILLING BABIES OMG!&#8221;  </p>
<p>Even if I allow that a foetus is as important as a human who has already been born (and I don&#8217;t believe that), the protestation that those who oppose abortion are &#8220;pro-life&#8221; falls flat on its face as soon as one investigates the other views that tend to go along with that.  Our system for dealing with unwanted and undernurtured children is broken as it is, if abortions were to stop, the number of children who would need to be adopted, who would need serious medical attention, who would be put in the foster-care system, etc. would increase dramatically, and rarely are those who oppose the legality of abortion those who also support increasing social programme funding, or increasing the pool of possible adoptive and foster parents (singles, gays).</p>
<p>What is especially sad to me is that a woman is no less misogynist for opposing the right to abortion just because she&#8217;s a woman.  It is tragic when you can convince those who are discriminated against  to perpetuate and defend their own discrimination.</p>
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		<title>By: AdamF</title>
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		<dc:creator>AdamF</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 07:00:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;they don’t - pour their resources into preventing the billions of fetal deaths&quot; etc.

I had not thought of it that way... interesting, thanks. I think I agree. It seems that many really don&#039;t care so much about &quot;life&quot; per se, but about their version of &quot;morality.&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;they don’t &#8211; pour their resources into preventing the billions of fetal deaths&#8221; etc.</p>
<p>I had not thought of it that way&#8230; interesting, thanks. I think I agree. It seems that many really don&#8217;t care so much about &#8220;life&#8221; per se, but about their version of &#8220;morality.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 06:49:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Craig, I can understand that if pro-lifers truly equated fetuses at various stages of growth with the same status as legal individuals, why they might legislate protection for them. But when I examine their logic, I actually don&#039;t think they value the unborn so much as they want to control women&#039;s bodies. 

Here are just a couple of examples, but they don&#039;t:
- pour their resources into preventing the billions of fetal deaths through spontaneous miscarriage. (way more than are lost to abortion)
- encourage comprehensive sex education with the realization that they would be saving untold lives of the unborn . etc., etc.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Craig, I can understand that if pro-lifers truly equated fetuses at various stages of growth with the same status as legal individuals, why they might legislate protection for them. But when I examine their logic, I actually don&#8217;t think they value the unborn so much as they want to control women&#8217;s bodies. </p>
<p>Here are just a couple of examples, but they don&#8217;t:<br />
- pour their resources into preventing the billions of fetal deaths through spontaneous miscarriage. (way more than are lost to abortion)<br />
- encourage comprehensive sex education with the realization that they would be saving untold lives of the unborn . etc., etc.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 06:43:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hear hear, xJane. Well argued, and eloquently spoken. I don&#039;t think I can add much, other than that just because abortion is illegal, it doesn&#039;t mean that brave (or is it more complex--greedy?) doctors don&#039;t still offer the service.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hear hear, xJane. Well argued, and eloquently spoken. I don&#8217;t think I can add much, other than that just because abortion is illegal, it doesn&#8217;t mean that brave (or is it more complex&#8211;greedy?) doctors don&#8217;t still offer the service.</p>
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		<title>By: Craig</title>
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		<dc:creator>Craig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 06:41:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m not certain I&#039;ll ever understand the desire to have your version of morality legislated, or the desire to force others to live the way you think is right.

In my view, the right of a woman to choose to not have an abortion owes exactly as much to having a free, secular society as the right to choose to have an abortion.   That is, if the right to have an abortion can be taken away, I don&#039;t think it&#039;s unreasonable to think that the right to not have an abortion is also threatened.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m not certain I&#8217;ll ever understand the desire to have your version of morality legislated, or the desire to force others to live the way you think is right.</p>
<p>In my view, the right of a woman to choose to not have an abortion owes exactly as much to having a free, secular society as the right to choose to have an abortion.   That is, if the right to have an abortion can be taken away, I don&#8217;t think it&#8217;s unreasonable to think that the right to not have an abortion is also threatened.</p>
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		<title>By: G</title>
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		<dc:creator>G</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Feb 2010 05:22:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>well said.  
and thank you for saying it here.  (regardless of what you get to say on super bowl sunday)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>well said.<br />
and thank you for saying it here.  (regardless of what you get to say on super bowl sunday)</p>
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