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	<title>Comments on: Open Paren, Close Paren. A General Reflection on the Events of the Past Three Months.</title>
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		<title>By: wren</title>
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		<dc:creator>wren</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 08 Dec 2009 17:24:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John, I&#039;m really happy for the things you have achieved and will achieve.  You&#039;ve been on quite a journey.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John, I&#8217;m really happy for the things you have achieved and will achieve.  You&#8217;ve been on quite a journey.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 05:46:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>David, I promise not to change the name!

CatBonny, if I were going through some of your recent trials, I *would* be complaining. You&#039;ve had some rough ones. Hang in there, my friend.

Christie, I don&#039;t think I deserve any of what you said, but thank you. It means much coming from a fellow tribe-mate.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>David, I promise not to change the name!</p>
<p>CatBonny, if I were going through some of your recent trials, I *would* be complaining. You&#8217;ve had some rough ones. Hang in there, my friend.</p>
<p>Christie, I don&#8217;t think I deserve any of what you said, but thank you. It means much coming from a fellow tribe-mate.</p>
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		<title>By: John</title>
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		<dc:creator>John</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 04 Dec 2009 05:44:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You all are too kind. And I like to see this inspiring as a cyclical, or pay it forward kinda thing. Most of you have been (or continue to be) inspirations to me at one time or another. Thank you.

Chanson and Rich, I will email you my pile o schlock tomorrow. :)

Chandelle, even if you don&#039;t see yourself in this way, I totally see you as a doer. You more than just about anyone else I know (well, maybe Jana) live an intentional life. That takes a lot of doing.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You all are too kind. And I like to see this inspiring as a cyclical, or pay it forward kinda thing. Most of you have been (or continue to be) inspirations to me at one time or another. Thank you.</p>
<p>Chanson and Rich, I will email you my pile o schlock tomorrow. <img src='http://www.mindonfire.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Chandelle, even if you don&#8217;t see yourself in this way, I totally see you as a doer. You more than just about anyone else I know (well, maybe Jana) live an intentional life. That takes a lot of doing.</p>
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		<title>By: G</title>
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		<dc:creator>G</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 17:49:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>dude, chandelle, I&#039;m writing that quote on my wall.  thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>dude, chandelle, I&#8217;m writing that quote on my wall.  thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Chandelle</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chandelle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 17:24:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I complained that circumstance made it impossible for me to fulfill my dreams: to go to grad school properly, to devote time to writing and creative projects, to go on long walking pilgrimages.&quot;

This reminds me of a Kierkegaard saying that stings me every time I hear it:

&quot;If one wishes to succeed, the secret of life is to chatter freely about all one wishes to do and how one is always being prevented, and then do nothing.&quot;

It stings because oh, it&#039;s so true for my life.

I am constantly inspired by the way you actually DO the things you say you want to do.  You actually devote yourself to the things and people you care about.  That&#039;s what I want for my life, too, and I&#039;m getting there, a bit.  Attending that Quaker meeting was a big leap of faith (HA!) for me, but I did it because of your example, and Jana&#039;s.  I&#039;m committed to pushing through the pain and becoming active because of all the people in my life who are making that same commitment who live with their own pain.  It&#039;s time to stop believing that mine cuts deeper.  

It&#039;s wonderful to see this post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I complained that circumstance made it impossible for me to fulfill my dreams: to go to grad school properly, to devote time to writing and creative projects, to go on long walking pilgrimages.&#8221;</p>
<p>This reminds me of a Kierkegaard saying that stings me every time I hear it:</p>
<p>&#8220;If one wishes to succeed, the secret of life is to chatter freely about all one wishes to do and how one is always being prevented, and then do nothing.&#8221;</p>
<p>It stings because oh, it&#8217;s so true for my life.</p>
<p>I am constantly inspired by the way you actually DO the things you say you want to do.  You actually devote yourself to the things and people you care about.  That&#8217;s what I want for my life, too, and I&#8217;m getting there, a bit.  Attending that Quaker meeting was a big leap of faith (HA!) for me, but I did it because of your example, and Jana&#8217;s.  I&#8217;m committed to pushing through the pain and becoming active because of all the people in my life who are making that same commitment who live with their own pain.  It&#8217;s time to stop believing that mine cuts deeper.  </p>
<p>It&#8217;s wonderful to see this post.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah</title>
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		<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 02:20:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Lovely.  So glad you&#039;ve found a new groove.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lovely.  So glad you&#8217;ve found a new groove.</p>
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		<title>By: Jana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Jana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Dec 2009 00:52:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is such an exciting time to be your partner.  :)  I can&#039;t wait to see how the next little while goes for you!

And, as someone who&#039;s had to do a few &#039;workarounds&#039; with my life, I&#039;m right here to help you along with that if/when it happens, too...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is such an exciting time to be your partner.  <img src='http://www.mindonfire.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   I can&#8217;t wait to see how the next little while goes for you!</p>
<p>And, as someone who&#8217;s had to do a few &#8216;workarounds&#8217; with my life, I&#8217;m right here to help you along with that if/when it happens, too&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: chanson</title>
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		<dc:creator>chanson</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 23:23:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s great that you&#039;ve spent some time working out what you want from life.  I can relate because I&#039;ve spent this entire past year reflecting on why I&#039;m frustrated about where I&#039;m at in my life, and planning what I really want to do.  I&#039;ve got a whole New Year&#039;s post mentally written. ;)

BTW, I really liked the NaNoWriMo chapters you sent me -- and I was sad that I was automatically unsubscribed from your list by failing to &quot;opt in&quot; a second time.  (I was busy the day you sent the message culling your list, and then I put off writing back about it.)

Is it too late to get back in on the manuscript reading?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s great that you&#8217;ve spent some time working out what you want from life.  I can relate because I&#8217;ve spent this entire past year reflecting on why I&#8217;m frustrated about where I&#8217;m at in my life, and planning what I really want to do.  I&#8217;ve got a whole New Year&#8217;s post mentally written. <img src='http://www.mindonfire.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>BTW, I really liked the NaNoWriMo chapters you sent me &#8212; and I was sad that I was automatically unsubscribed from your list by failing to &#8220;opt in&#8221; a second time.  (I was busy the day you sent the message culling your list, and then I put off writing back about it.)</p>
<p>Is it too late to get back in on the manuscript reading?</p>
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		<title>By: John White</title>
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		<dc:creator>John White</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 22:12:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve become a big fan of physical therapy over the past three weeks.  A good physical therapist can help one increase the quality of one&#039;s life so much...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve become a big fan of physical therapy over the past three weeks.  A good physical therapist can help one increase the quality of one&#8217;s life so much&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Rich</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rich</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 20:10:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Still looking forward to a particular e-mail... :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Still looking forward to a particular e-mail&#8230; <img src='http://www.mindonfire.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: EBrown</title>
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		<dc:creator>EBrown</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 18:44:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for letting me get to know you. I rely on you to keep me thinking, stretching, and moving.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for letting me get to know you. I rely on you to keep me thinking, stretching, and moving.</p>
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		<title>By: David</title>
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		<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 17:33:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Nice inflection period John.

Isn&#039;t cycling great! I don&#039;t have all that many new, refreshing ideas while cycling (I go into a sort of traffic-aware trance) but I do have a lot of new, refreshing ideas BECAUSE of my cycling. 

And your assessment doesn&#039;t strike me as egotistical. Maybe because I spend so much time in Corplandia. I think it is healthy to honestly reflect on your accomplishments - in a balanced manner, of course. Don&#039;t change the name of the site to &quot;Mind on John&#039;s Awesomeness!&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nice inflection period John.</p>
<p>Isn&#8217;t cycling great! I don&#8217;t have all that many new, refreshing ideas while cycling (I go into a sort of traffic-aware trance) but I do have a lot of new, refreshing ideas BECAUSE of my cycling. </p>
<p>And your assessment doesn&#8217;t strike me as egotistical. Maybe because I spend so much time in Corplandia. I think it is healthy to honestly reflect on your accomplishments &#8211; in a balanced manner, of course. Don&#8217;t change the name of the site to &#8220;Mind on John&#8217;s Awesomeness!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Christie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:48:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As someone who only met you after this transformation started, it&#039;s hard to believe that you were ever the person you describe. 

Also I had no idea you had chronic pain, which says something about the grace with which you carry yourself.

I am proud to know you and count you among my friends. You are an inspiration.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As someone who only met you after this transformation started, it&#8217;s hard to believe that you were ever the person you describe. </p>
<p>Also I had no idea you had chronic pain, which says something about the grace with which you carry yourself.</p>
<p>I am proud to know you and count you among my friends. You are an inspiration.</p>
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		<title>By: catBonny</title>
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		<dc:creator>catBonny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 16:29:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John,

It&#039;s so great to hear about all this personal growth in your life.  I am so happy that you have gotten to experience all of this fun risks and challenges in the  past several months, and that you have come out on the other side of it with a really awesome attitude about taking on more risks in life.  

I feel like I have been a bit whiney of late, and this is great inspiration to try to change my attitude  bit, and get back to happy/thankful living.  = +</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John,</p>
<p>It&#8217;s so great to hear about all this personal growth in your life.  I am so happy that you have gotten to experience all of this fun risks and challenges in the  past several months, and that you have come out on the other side of it with a really awesome attitude about taking on more risks in life.  </p>
<p>I feel like I have been a bit whiney of late, and this is great inspiration to try to change my attitude  bit, and get back to happy/thankful living.  = +</p>
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		<title>By: ECS</title>
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		<dc:creator>ECS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wonderful!   So glad to hear you&#039;re happy and healthy.  

Looking forward to reading what you&#039;ve been working on.  Keep writing!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful!   So glad to hear you&#8217;re happy and healthy.  </p>
<p>Looking forward to reading what you&#8217;ve been working on.  Keep writing!</p>
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		<title>By: G</title>
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		<dc:creator>G</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:35:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I ♥ self reflection, introspection, creative endeavors.  And biking too.  

your goals and accomplishments are highly motivational to me.  thank you :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I ♥ self reflection, introspection, creative endeavors.  And biking too.  </p>
<p>your goals and accomplishments are highly motivational to me.  thank you <img src='http://www.mindonfire.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: GKB</title>
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		<dc:creator>GKB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 02 Dec 2009 15:13:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>John:

Good for you on the biking. Exercise can have a huge impact on one&#039;s outlook on life and self.

Swimming is another form of working out that is easier on the joints.

Keep it up!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>John:</p>
<p>Good for you on the biking. Exercise can have a huge impact on one&#8217;s outlook on life and self.</p>
<p>Swimming is another form of working out that is easier on the joints.</p>
<p>Keep it up!</p>
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